11.19.2007

Such a shame.

I feel bad for Thanksgiving. It's such an unassuming holiday. It's arguably the only holiday Hallmark, and by Hallmark I mean society, hasn't completely ripped the guts out of. It's nice. It's about family and food and thank you's. These are a few of my favorite things.

Now, I adore the Christmas season. So far, I'm not one of those Crazies who cries and complains about the malls or about the pressure of the holiday. But maybe that comes when you have kids, so that remains to be seen. I am still naive and appreciate the lights and the anticipation and the tree decorating and the cookie eating and the family gatherings and general merriment and my annual Christmas-song piano playing. But all in due time. After Thanksgiving only. That's just how I was raised.

I'd also like to know how we go from giving thanks one month to punching the lady who has the gift we want the next? A month ago we were so thankful for what we had. And now my grandma needs a police escort to her car for fear of being tackled for being lucky enough to grab the "gift of the year". I just don't get it.

I'm sorry that the giving of thanks only lasts one day. I'm sorry that it's seen as just a road block until we get to the "real" holiday. And I'm sorry that it's not appreciated for what it is. It's a shame.

5 comments:

Sarah said...

BRAVO. BRAVO.

Very well said, and nearly straight from my mind.

Thanksgiving IS and ALWAYS WILL BE my favorite holiday for the simple reason that it is about being together and not about gifts. We can all say that the gifts don't matter at Christmas, but I have a hard time believing many of us wouldn't be disappointed if we didn't get any.

I do feel bad for Thanksgiving.

Let's start a petition.

Ky • twopretzels.com said...

I'd sign the petition.

I agree, great holiday.

(Note: This is precisely why I keep a gratitude journal. I write the date then 5 things I'm thankful for. I've had it since 2000 or 2001, can't remember. Love it, though.)

Traci said...

I would MUCH rather celebrate thanksgiving than christmas.

now, don't get me wrong, the whole religious aspect of christmas is all fine and good.

it's the commerical aspect that annoys me. and yes, I'm one of those crazies who hates the shopping and the nuttiness of racing to toys r us for the "it" gift. [it does happen once you have kids. i wasn't always this way!].

i just think turkey day is nice: no one is hoping to get that perfect gift...everyone just wants to eat, drink and be merry.

Traci said...
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MD said...

Correction: I am hoping to get that perfect gift...